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Glimmers for a rough day

Having a rough day? Find your glimmers!

What are glimmers?

Glimmers are like little rays of sunshine on even the cloudiest days and can be particularly important for those new to dealing with chronic illness. Coined by psychotherapist Deb Dana, “glimmers” are those moments of brightness and positivity that can make a big difference in how we feel, especially when facing health challenges. Think of them as small but powerful bursts of joy. These moments can range from the simple pleasure of noticing the warmth of the sun on your skin to the heartwarming experience of a kind gesture from someone. Glimmers are like emotional vitamins, providing hope and strength during tough times.

Glimmers provide hope and strength during a rough day (or month or year...)

finding your glimmers

Glimmers often vary from person to person. They’re the things that make us smile or bring a sense of peace, no matter how small they may seem. Here are some everyday examples of glimmers that might brighten your day:

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Glimmer Examples

A Glimmer of blooms

Are you looking for some bright, cheerful blooms on a cold, rainy day? You’re in the right place! Look through this gallery of flowers to virtually walk through nature when you can’t do it in real life.

Mimosa Blooms
Red columbine flower
German chamomile
white columbine flower with hairy beardtongue
Grape Hyacinth Garden
columbine pod with spiderweb
Gaillardia Indian Blanket
Distraction During Flares 3
Distraction During Flares Option 2
Distraction During Flares
Orange butterfly on marigolds 3
Orange butterfly on marigolds
Orange butterfly on marigolds 2
Orange butterfly on marigolds 4
Fennel fronds
grassy walk on a warm day
red and black beetle on stevia
red and black beetle on stevia 2
red and black beetle on stevia graytone
puffball flower with purple flowers behind
Mimosa bloom in sunset
Salsify seeds
okra blooms encased in ice
ice encased branch
pink-tinged okra bloom covered in ice
chinese pistache fall colors in ice
black and white okra bloom in ice
chinese pistache fall colors in ice
ice encrusted thin branches
rose ice storm dripping icicles
spiral vine encased in ice

Gardening Glimmers

Here are photos of my gardens by date for when it’s cold and dreary outside. Do you have photos you’d like to have featured here? Contact me and I’ll add your gardens to my digital gallery here for others to enjoy too! After all, there’s no such thing as too many gardens to look at, right?!

August 2024

August 2024 - Boneset CU blooms
August 2024 - CU orange zinnia
August 2024 - LS Side Garden Sunflowers
MS Sunflowers and sky
MS Sunflowers and sky - further right
August 2024 - CU Sunflower unopened
August 2024 - LS Side Garden 2
August 2024 - CU coffee plant and purple annual
August CU sensitive plant
August sensitive plant & red coreopsis flowers
August CU red coreopsis
August licorice mint blooms MS
August cucumbers 3 varieties
August MS lemon cucumbers
August west side of perennial bed
August CU sage lemongrass oregano
August CU borage flowers
August perennial garden east side
August thai purple mint and poblano pepper plant
August west garden bed - sweet potatoes okra tomatillos
CU sweet potatoes August
MS August tomatillo and parsley
August okras

July 2024

Coreopsis flowers July 2024 - Side Garden
July Forecast Zinnia 8 - Side Garden
Indian Blanket July 2024 - Side Garden
July Forecast Zinnia 2 - Side Garden
July Forecast Zinnia 3 - Side Garden
July Forecast Zinnia 1 - Side Garden
Boneset pre-bloom July 2024 - Side Garden
July Sunflowers - side garden
July Forecast Zinnia 6 Orange - Side Garden
Lavender Beebalm - Side Garden
Lavender Beebalm close up - Side Garden July 2024
July Forecast Zinnia 7 - Side Garden
July Forecast Zinnia 5 Orange - Side Garden
July Forecast Zinnia 4 - Side Garden
Sedum Side Planter July 2024
Side Garden July 2024 LS
Sesbania Coffeeweed Yellow flowers - July 2024
Side Garden 2 LS - July 2024
CU mint stevia in barrel - July 2024
Stevia and mints in barrel planter - July 2024
Collards peppers and lemon cucumber garden MS - July 2024
Collards peppers and tomatoes in middle garden - July 2024
Perennial herb garden - July 2024 - sage and lemongrass
Herb garden MS - July 2024
Chamomile Borage Cucumbers Lavender Garden - July 2024
Pickling cucumber CU July 2024
Pickling cucumber on the vine - July 2024
Armenian cucumbers - July 2024 - Perennial garden

June 2024

Fairy succulent garden June 2024
Basil in ceramic planter June 2024
June 2024 Side Garden LS 3
June 2024 Side Garden LS 2
June 2024 Side Garden LS 1
Side garden CU of orange flowers - June 2024
Pink yellow forecast zinnia CU - June 2024
White forecast Zinnia CU - June 2024
Scarlett Beebalm from above - June 2024
CU scarlett beebalm bud neon green leaves - June 2024
Scarlett beebalm bud - June 2024
Scarlett beebalm CU June 2024
CU scarlett beebalm - June 2024
Scarlett beebalm MS from side - June 2024
Scarlett beebalm flower CU - June 2024
Red Yarrow and Black Knight Canna - June 2024
Red Yarrow - June 2024
Lavender Beebalm - Side Garden CU bud
June 2024 Side Garden 2 LS 1
June 2024 Side Garden 2 LS 2
June 2024 Planters Mint Stevia Fennel Strawberries
Fennel barrel June 2024
Perennial 8x8 garden LS - June 2024
Armenian cucumbers and Valerian Root - June 2024
Borage greens - June 2024
German Chamomile plant - June 2024
Chamomile CU - June 2024
Sorrel greens - June 2024
MS Cucumbers - June 2024
CU cucumber bloom and fruit - June 2024
Cucumber vine CU - June 2024
Perennial garden MS - June 2024
Sage Lemongrass Oregano Perennial Garden - June 2024
Middle Raised Bed LS - June 2024
Tomatoes in garden June 2024
Okra Tomatillo 8x8 garden bed - June 2024
CU garden with sweet potatoes and carrots - June 2024
Dill Red Lettuce Tomatillo CU garden - June 2024
Okras June 2024

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